So after dating a guy I met off-line for about a month, I decided to get right down to it?  How come he hadn’t made a move yet?  We’d seen eachother four times since meeting off line and while he’d give these really long passionate hugs, he never tried to sneak a kiss or cop a feel.  Was he gay?  I decided to Facebook him and get straight to the point.  “We’ve been going out for a little bit now and you haven’t even tried to kiss me.  What’s up!?”

He jokingly said that he was gay, but I know better because I saw a picture of him and his ex-girlfriend making out on the beach (Probably something he should have taken off his Facebook before attempting to date).  Anyway, he asked if friends with benefits was okay with me.  W/o thinking I said sure, because ever girl needs a little loving, but honestly; should I have been insulted or flattered?

I think that no matter what, I’d take it as an insult.  There is a guy and he’s saying; “You’re attractive enough to want to sleep with, but I don’t want you all to myself!”  Now, I’m am in no way, shape or form against getting in where I fit in, but I don’t w

Thoughts ladies?